Neurodivergent-Affirming Therapy

Looking for Neurodivergent-Affirming counseling in North Carolina, Virginia, or Tennessee? You’re in the right place.

  • What is neurodivergent-affirming therapy?

    Neurodivergent-affirming therapy is a strengths-based, non-pathologizing approach to mental health care that honors differences in how brains process information, emotion, sensory input, and the world. Rather than trying to make you “more normal,” this type of therapy focuses on helping you understand your nervous system, support your natural patterns, and build a life that actually works with your brain.

    This approach views autism, ADHD, sensory processing differences, learning disabilities, and other neurotypes as valid ways of being, not defects.

  • How is this different from traditional therapy?

    Traditional therapy often focuses on changing “problem” behaviors or pushing people to conform to neurotypical standards of productivity, communication, or emotional expression.

    Neurodivergent-affirming therapy:

    1) centers your actual lived experience

    2) avoids shame-based or compliance-driven goals

    3) prioritizes nervous system safety

    4) adapts communication and pacing

    5) respects your natural rhythms and needs

    The goal isn’t to make you mask—it’s to help you feel safe, understood, and supported as yourself.

  • Do you work with both diagnosed and self-identified neurodivergent clients?

    Yes.

    Many neurodivergent adults go undiagnosed for years due to masking, misdiagnosis, gender bias, or lack of access to assessments.

    You do not need paperwork to deserve support. Your lived experience is enough.

  • Will you try to change or “fix” me?

    No.

    Neurodivergent-affirming therapy does not aim to make you less autistic, less ADHD, or less yourself.

    Instead, therapy focuses on reducing shame, supporting self-understanding, identifying sustainable systems, building emotional regulation skills, honoring sensory and cognitive needs, strengthening self-trust and more.

    You are not broken — you are navigating a world that often wasn’t built for your nervous system.

  • Do you offer support for executive dysfunction and task initiation?

    Yes.

    Struggles with starting tasks, maintaining focus, organizing, and follow-through are common for ADHD and autistic clients.

    Neurodivergent-affirming therapy approaches executive functioning with compassion rather than pressure. Together, we can explore:

    1) low-spoon planning systems

    2) dopamine-friendly motivation strategies

    3) nervous-system-informed productivity

    4) realistic scheduling

    5) shame-free accountability

  • Is therapy adapted for communication differences?

    Yes.

    Therapy can be adapted to meet your needs, including:

    1) slower pacing

    2) direct or literal language

    3) visual supports

    4) typed up follow-ups

    5) structured sessions

    6) permission to stim, move, or be off camera

    You don’t have to perform neurotypical behavior to be respected or believed here.